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Tuesdays Unwrapped: Just When I Thought I Had Nothing to Share

I've been bummed all day thinking I had nothing to contribute today to Tuesday's Unwrapped.

There didn't seem to be anything extraordinary that I noticed--I'm sure it was there but being bogged down with a stomach virus, I haven't been especially aware.


Then, as I dragged myself to bring out the trash--there it was. A full rainbow. Full and vibrant. I know what your thinking--the picture is of a smidge of a rainbow--but that's what happens when you have to scramble for your camera--only to find dead batteries inside--then scramble some more to find and insert the new ones.

The kids reveled in the joy of seeing a full rainbow as they stood with soggy bare feet in the icy cold rain. And now I feel better having shared this now lovely Tuesday.

I ♥ Faces Challenge: Excited

This pic is the one I thought of right away upon reading this week's challenge on I ♥ Faces-

A boy shocked and unable to contain his excitement over catching the first fish of the day.

Reason 136 I Homeschool

When people ask why I homeschool I try to explain--but they don't always "get it". they think we must be fanatical or anti-social when it is the opposite that is true.

I read a story about a boy, age 10, with emotional disorders and on medication for such was ticketed by police for disrupting class--all because his medication made him sleepy and upon the teacher waking him became upset.

This reminds me of one of Michael's early schooling events that shaped our decision to homeschool.

Michael had been in an earthy-crunchy nursery school for about a year. But he was liking it less and less and needed something more. As a 3 year old at the time, he was craving learning which this school didn't really offer. We made the jump one day after long consideration to a progressive learning nursery school in our area. At the time, I was working and we had few options for fueling his desire to learn.

The first day he was at the new school, I called several times to "check in". I was told happy stories of him playing and having fun. It was quite the opposite when I showed up hours later to pick him up.

Michael had found gears at a "center" and was completely intrigued by them--he played and learned and was fascinated. While exploring these, the teacher called everyone for circle time. Michael was never the sing-songy kind of kid and really disliked sitting around singing the ABC--which he knew by heart since he was 2. So he continued to play and learn about gears.

The teacher confronted him at which time he crawled under the table and refused to join circle time. On his first day in a new school and being all of three years old-- it should have ended there. But of course it didn't.

The teacher pulled him out from under the table. When he began to flail and protest she called in two other teachers from another room that he had never seen before. The three of them tried to restrain him as he fought harder and harder. All the while they spoke in Spanish (which he didn't understand) and pulled him to circle time.

My three year old son, scared in a new school, was being restrained by three strangers and hearing the teachers complain in a foreign language cried and yelled and tried to wriggle away.

He spent the rest of the day in "time out" not allowed to play. He came home with a bruise in the shape of fingerprints on his neck. This was the end of our schooling experience.
Three and half years later--he can recall this episode with great detail.

As a teacher, I know all too well the need for kids to fit in to the protocol of the school day and assimilate.

It seems that the schools are less and less tolerant of children being individuals with needs and personalities. Schools often forget that children are--children.

Fall Favorite Things

I ♥ Faces is running the Favorite Things contemplation challenge this week.
I decided to make mine have a Fall theme with the things that help me love this fantastic season.
Check out the other entries here.

Featured on Tip Junkie

I L-O-V-E Tip Junkie so you can imagine my utter delight when I found out this morning I was featured on Tip Junkie with my frugal wine-rack turned towel-holder hack!

View the feature here.

Knight in Shining Armor